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Match Day

Elise has a very specific sense of fashion: to take the first items from each drawer and put them on. I’ve been trying to guide her, just a little, into wearing things that look a little nicer together but also believe she should be able to choose her own clothes so I’ll say things like “I’m not sure those patterns will work together” and if she doesn’t want to change, I don’t make her.

Today’s randomly selected outfit is a brown skirt with multi coloured pastel flowers on it, a grey and black striped shirt and tights. So I said “I’m not sure if those are going to match” and she said “I don’t care if they match. It’s not Match Day, Mama!”

A whole bunch of incomplete posts

I just posted a whole bunch of posts I found in some drafts that I never sent to the blog. I just got the timeline option from Facebook which I was glad for because for a while I was using FB to post the little fun things that happened with the girls and I thought they were lost – including posts about when Elise lost her first tooth. I hadn’t recorded it anywhere else. There will be a bunch of blog posts coming up that will get our blog caught up with what it should have been in the first place and then I hope to use the blog for those updates instead of FB.

Two…and a half

Elise is two and a half today. She is growing up strong, beautiful and smart. We think we’re pretty much in trouble.

Her language is fantastic. She speaks like such a grown up little person – in full, grammatically correct sentences (well, mostly correct, anyway). But like all little kids she says some funny things as she goes about making daily observations. Here are some of my favourites:

To Erin: I prefer to call you Daddy. To Grandpa “Grandpa, you’re a nice man.” To me when I said I go on the toilet because I’m a big girl “You’re not a big girl, I’m a big girl. You’re a nady” (she still doesn’t quite have the letter L)

She also speaks Spanish which she has learned from watching too much Dora the Explorer. She knows rojo (red), azul (blue), verde (green), amarillo (yellow), salta (jump), abre (open)

Babing Suits and Sucky Switching

I found this post amongst the drafts. I’m posting it even though its several years old because…well…why not.

Elise is going to be three in a month so I thought I would post one last two-year old entry before I do my sappy birthday note.

Some funny and cute things Elise says and does at age 2 *talks a mile a minute. Lately it’s been about using your big eyes and ears to see if there’s any scary animals and if you see any scary animals you have to hop away. (ref: Diego and the Chinchilla rescue) *Bathing suits are “babing suits” *has to sleep with several soothers and she sucks each one for a few seconds then switches. She also spins them in her mouth as she settles down. This is terrible, but I am in no hurry for her to give up the sucky. *loves twinkle twinkle little star-it’s her favourite, especially the special one Val gave her. She knows all the verses. *says “I’m having trouble coping” when she’s tired and starts crying. *Pistachios are “Pistachi-toes” but I started that one when I was joking around with her and it just stuck.

Travelling at the Speed of Life Part Deux

God this post is so old. I never got it up on the blog so I’m posting it as is a good number of months after it was written

Daniella. Oh my Sunny D. My unexpected Gift.

Daniella turned 4 on April 7. She is a bright and energetic little person. She hasn’t stopped bouncing since she could walk. Erin and I often think about how much we will miss it when she no longer bounces when she’s excited about something but so far, she still does it.

In September she started preschool at the Recreation Centre near our house with Karen and Jen. Karen used to be Colleen’s assistant. Daniella likes her teachers a lot. Unfortunately, a rather serious situation occurred which resulted in Karen losing her lead instructor position and us going through a number of weeks wondering what happened and only hearing that they were looking for a new lead instructor to help Karen and Jen in the classroom. There would be 3 teachers. First we had Sandra. Then we had Kay. Kay used to work with Colleen too. We liked her a lot but Kay recently got her teaching degree and eventually got a full time position teaching in Burnaby. Now we have Jeannie. We like her a lot….you’re probably noticing the trend that Daniella likes all her teachers a lot. This has made all these changes, which could have been extremely difficult for someone her age, no problem!

Daniella and Elise were unicorns for Halloween. Daniella got absolutely SOAKED with sweat running from house to house as she approaches most things in life…full on!

For Christmas this year Daniella had her heart set on a pink dolphin stuffy she saw at the aquarium gift shop. She asked Santa for it which meant that I went all the way to the aquarium to buy it for her one day because I want my kids to believe that Santa will bring what they ask for. Not everything of course but for Daniella, the dolphin was the ONE THING. sigh.

And speaking of stuffies…Daniella’s collection is growing all the time. Her “Friends” as she calls them are all very special to her. Meet the friends:

Woof Woof: her very favourite and most special. a little brown dog that Alex Woodruff gave her for Christmas when she was 1. Little Puppy: a gift for her 3rd birthday from our good friends the Dumonts because Daniella always played with the same small stuffed puppy at their house. Little Puppy looks a little different but no matter. Pinky: the pink and white dolphin Santa brought her. Grey White: Daniella saved her allowance to buy this little grey and white kitty in a purse. Hadda: the original friend. It’s actually Linny the Guinea Pig from Wonder Pets. She couldn’t say Hamster when she was 1. Myrtle the Turtle: a turtle that has a hard shell with holes in it that lights the night sky on her ceiling.

I could go on and on but these are her most important friends and they all live in her bed and take turns being cuddled to sleep.

Teaching an old woman new tricks

I am a terribly disorganized woman. It comes part and parcel with being creative. I love my free thinking nature. It’s what helps me come up with my genius ideas each day. But my free thinking nature causes me to move from one thing to another leaving chaos in my wake. having so much visible noise around me is blocking my creative juices. Sort of a creative catch 22.

So my plan is to prep the house for a summer of outdoor fun and pure artistic flow….writing, crocheting, scrapbooking, building, DIY home improvements and whatever other pursuits come our way. To this end I am sacrificing most of my remaining Monday Wednesday and Friday mornings getting the house ready.

The girls don’t play with their toys – they are going into storage. The girls have way too many clothes – they are going to be purged. I have too many craft supplies waiting for me to use them – some, I hope most, will go.

Thoroughly organizing the office/craft room, living room computer station will be the first step. My kitchen, I must admit is pretty good so it should just be one of the 9 weeks. I’m going to start in the office/craft room/laundry room/storage room which could be a hub for creation if I wanted it to be but as you can tell from the 4 purposes this room serves it is a bit of a catch all. Workable with some work.

After all this is said and done, perhaps our space will be more workable

Party in Fairy Tale Village

Guests arriving at Elise’s 6th birthday party were greeted with a sign that said “Fee Fi Fo Farty. Welcome to Elise’s Party” They were asked to eat a magic bean (pink and blue Jelly Belly’s) and come on in where they were to climb the beanstalk to the top of our stairs. We had tied cutout eaves to a skipping rope that was attached to the top of our banister. I had made a paper beanstalk on the wall and used vines from my neighbour’s wisteria plant on the banister. At the top of the stairs were cutout clouds and a castle and some stuffing.

6 little girls came dressed in fairy tale attire – lovely princesses! Elise Coutts, Lydia Dumont, Nikki Winters, Jaime They made a magic wand with either a purple butterfly, pink flower, pink lady bug or blue seahorse. They decorated the cutout wand tipper with glitter, buttons and sparkles and we stuck them on sticks. Voila! Beautiful magic wands.

First the sea horse fairies got to sprinkle fairy dust on the other girls and we headed outside for Ariel’s Shipwreck Treasure Hunt. We had hidden human stuff and the kids worked in teams to find the 10 human items.

Then the flower fairies sprinkled fairy dust on the others and we went back inside for a tea party in Pixie Hollow. We served berry juice and small snacks to refresh the fairy princesses before going back outside where the ladybug fairies sprinkled fairy dust on the others. From our front yard we followed the path to the back yard and played Little Red Riding Hood’s relay race. Grandma Mavis sat at a chair at one end of the garden. Each team had a basket and they were given a cookie to take to Grandma. They had to skip around the pond (foil covered hula hoop), throw a “rock” (soft ball) at the Big Bad Wolf (Erin and Dave Smoliak), skip to Grandma and give her the cookie and then run back to the line so the next girl could go. So much fun!

The last stop in fairy tale land was to decorate butterfly cookies and have ice cream sundaes. Elise didn’t want a cake – she wanted ice cream. That’s my girl. Always thinking out of the box!

The goodie bags contained some fairy wall decals, a small pot of glitter with a tiny version of their wand topper, a line of string with mini clothes pins to display their artwork at home and a bit of candy.

Elise’s First Stories

As typed by Elise March 4, 2012:

Marea Mermaide

ones upon a time there was a mermaid name Marea Marea liket to do everything she liket (to) dive and run fast most of all she liked to swim to Marea walkt to the pool. at the pool she swam and swam until her tall was all tired out. The End

My Sister My sister is nice and she’s 4 and her birthday is on April 7th and I love her her name was Daniella and she’s nearly 5 she’s in pre. K on September 6th she will be in Kindergarten when she’s 5. The End.

The Dalzells in Disneyland

We have just returned from the long anticipated trip to Disneyland and San Diego. What a time we had and I can’t wait to go there again when the girls are older.

It was lovely seeing Disneyland through their eyes and I hope it was not as much of a blur to them as it was to me. I hope they enjoyed every minute as much as I did. First of all, as much as Disneyland is all commercial and certainly not the road less travelled, the place is designed flawlessly to make you feel happy. It’s like you are put in a trance when you pay the ridiculous fee to go through the gates. The fee is forgotten immediately, or at least, value is seen in every penny. This was highlighted even more by the opposite experience at Sea World which I will tell of in another post.

Ahhh Disneyland. To a four and six year old, this is what Heaven must be. Giant stuffies walking around waiting to give you a hug and a kiss. Rides for thrill, rides that tell a story and rides simply for nice things to look at. Shops filled with colourful, delightful toys and shiny things to buy. The sky is the limit. Their favourite movies and characters coming to life right before their eyes.

Long since past the age of just believing, I sometimes have to remind myself to be young at heart and let myself get sucked into the illusions. I am lucky that I am still a child at heart in a lot of ways. Disneyland makes it easy to forget you aren’t a child especially when you are holding hands with a frightened four year old on a submarine in a swimming pool that she fully believes is on the bottom of the darkest ocean.

Elise’s favourite rides were Winnie the Pooh, Goofy’s Flying School, Autopia, Big Thunder Mountain (“it was one of my scariest) but she enjoyed all the rides we went on except Splash Mountain which she has said she is never going on again until she is as old as Grandpa.

Daniella in her need for speed loved Big Thunder Mountain! It was awesome! as well as the King Triton’s merry-go-round, Autopia, and the coaster in ToonTown but I think she would say all the rides to be honest. She did not like the Finding Nemo Submarine “it’s pitch dark I can’t see a thing I want off” or Splash Mountain because besides the drop at the end which she said made her tummy feel sick, there is a model of a bunny tied in a rope with a shadow of a wolf about to eat it just before the drop off. This was too sad and scary for her to handle.

As for experiences, Turtle Talk with Crush (Elise got to ask Crush a question so she told him a joke – why did the chicken cross the road and crush said “dude I totally didn’t see that coming” then asked her “shy did the tuna cross the road? because it’s the chicken of the sea”, drawing lessons where we learned to draw Donald Duck, the Muppets in 3D, meeting characters and getting autographs but the highlight for us was when the girls did their Irish and Highland dancing for Terence (when he asked them what their fairy talent was) and he tried to do it too and then they danced over to see Tinkerbell. SO much fun!

We did a character meal at Goofy’s Kitchen. Food was mediocre but we were expecting that. We didn’t realize our girls were food snobs as well but they didn’t care about the food anyway because they were busy visiting with Pluto, Cinderella, Minnie Mouse, Aladdin and Chip n Dale. Pluto and Chip n Dale have a new fan in me because of how lovely they were at this meal. Pluto had fun with the girls pretending he was too shy to talk to Cinderella. He put his ears over his eyes and kept shaking his head like he was overcome with shyness and then we all cheered when he finally did it and she curtsied to him. SO CUTE!! Chip and Dale held the girls hands and “attempted” to lead them down the path to the cast only area of It’s a Bug’s Land when we happened upon them as they were leaving their photo post. Lots of hugs and kisses and genuine smiles all around from Elise, Daniella and us as well!

One of Daniella’s special moments was meeting Snow White, while wearing our friend’s Snow White costume and Snow said “Did you sneak into my closet to get that dress?” Daniella says “no, I borrowed it from Elise Coutts.”

Daniella was a bit obsessed with the shopping. She was determined to choose just the right souvenirs. It was a bit overwhelming. I keep telling people about her breaking a small snow globe (which I shouldn’t because she was embarrassed about it) but I tell the story only as a testimonial to the staff at Disneyland. I was cross because I had told her not to touch. It wasn’t expensive, just the principal of her touching anyway. But in truth it wasn’t totally her fault as the snow globe was on a pedestal which she thought was part of the snow globe so when she went to turn the whole thing upside down, it slid off and smashed. She was devastated. I didn’t help matters but then tried to back pedal and comfort her instead and the shop keeper came along and said “it’s ok. accidents happen.” and when I asked how much I owed for the broken piece, he said “I just want you to not worry about it and enjoy your day.” MAN! They so totally GET IT!

Well, back to the shopping thing, Daniella picked out her souvenir on the first day. I noticed them and even if she hadn’t had been with me, it’s what I would have chosen for her. I made her wait until the end of the second day before she bought a plush baby Simba wrapped in a leaf blanket. She also bought a snow white glowing magic wand. Elise bought a fancy princess pencil box, not because of the princesses on it but the hidden drawers, pop up pencil sharpener and date changing thingy. Totally what I would have picked for her too. She also bought two little snow globes. I think I will go on line and order a snow globe for Nella too because I think breaking that one put her off them and I know she had really wanted one. Birthday gift? What do you think?

More on the trip in another entry. I’m off to bed.

This one’s for the ladies

Workout today is to build my weak upper body. First was sets of 21, 15, 9, 3 – pullups and burpies. After that was a tabatas (20 secs on, 10 secs rest, repeat 8 times) situps.

Short but effective!